Live, and let die…

Sometimes, our setbacks in life can feel as if our world is coming to an end.In many ways, it does spell the end of a lifetime for us because we reach points where everything that we know to be true comes under question.Major life events like health issues that compromise our quality of life, divorce, [...]

A brain dump

Some find solace as the years progress. Some find love. Some find an emptiness where space was once held in hope for a significant other. My contemplations of which applies to me hold no sway any longer. Writing this post creates a delusion of its own. Although it could be interpreted as gratitude or reflection [...]

To give up silently

"When you give up on something, it becomes a weighty silence that you carry within you for the rest of your life.It's a quiet acceptance that what once was the centre of your being will never be a part of your being again.The silence is the only gesture that will honour such loss, such surrender.And [...]

The twins of love and pain

We see in the world around us that which occupies the most space in our hearts.When our hearts are filled with love and affection, we find no place for hate or bitterness.When we hold space in our life for justice for past oppression, we prevent that space from being filled with the love that we [...]

Choose your company…wisely

Choose your company carefully.The peace of mind and sense of belonging for which you yearn could easily turn out to be the reason for your anguish.There is rarely a day that passes without me reading or hearing about someone who invested years, if not decades of their life, to people who were not invested in [...]

The pain of being empty

When we're overcome with the pain of betrayal, or loss, our focus is often on what we no longer have, rather than the gaping hole that it left in our soul.We try to reconcile the events or the mysteries that led up to that moment when what we cherished was suddenly taken.Sometimes taken by fate, [...]