A moment of trust

It's impossible to go through life without trusting others.But, if we're not careful, the trust that we invest in others could result in consequences that create a struggle for the rest of our lives.Most often, when choosing a partner, we focus on how trustworthy they are in the present circumstances, but have no idea how…

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Dehumanising the human

Don't become so fixated on labelling yours, or the behaviour of others, that you lose sight of the human struggle behind that behaviour.Labels make it easier for us to deal with stuff.The moment we give it a name, we can manage our expectations around it.This is fine when it comes to abstract stuff and tasks…

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Positive thinking fallacies

Important reminder from the archives...There is much harm in this widespread acceptance of the so-called power cf positive thinking. Most importantly, it suggests that our thoughts inspire the actions of others.That is patently incorrect.It also suggests that if we focus on positivity, we're guaranteed to attract positivity.That is dangerously incorrect.We all wear masks of some…

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