Judging bad behaviour

I have yet to meet someone who behaves poorly when they feel appreciated.Yet, we're most often focused on the poor behaviour instead of their feeling of insignificance.The same is true for us.Our anger, bitterness, or rebellion is simply an expression intended to reclaim our significance when significant others treat us as if we don't matter.…

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Allow your children to be their own person

We always have good intentions when we strive to give our children everything that we didn't have.Often, this includes protecting them from the hardships or difficulties that we experienced.Unfortunately, when we do this, we end up protecting them from reality, and in the process, we deny them the very life lessons that taught us to…

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What are you waiting for?

I've often advised someone about something that I truly believed them to be capable of achieving, and the response I received was, "Not everyone is like you!"Henry Ford said, "If you think you can, or you think you can't, you're right."Sadly, too many think that they can't, and then blame the world for the state…

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