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Break the cycle
Character is what is built when we are faced with trials. Beauty is what we appreciate when we emerge from those trials. Those that have the greatest scars are the ones that appreciate life the most. But only if they don’t allow themselves to grow bitter in the process. After hardship comes ease, provided we…
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The need to be godly
Godliness, like humility, is lost the moment we lay claim to it. It is something that we may exhibit in our conduct or demeanour, but not something that we can directly claim. It is our ability to manifest the attributes of the divine in our character and in our treatment of others without wanting to…
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What is forgiveness about anyway?
If there is one piece of advice that will help you through the worst of times, this is it. Internalise this, connect with it, make it your mantra if you must, but understand that forgiveness on its own, without acceptance, will leave you yearning for retribution or justice. Acceptance is more important than forgiveness, because…
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Delusions of Godliness
The delusion of godliness diminishes our capacity to connect with the divine. When we assume ourselves to be above those that behave worse than us, or we assume that we hold within us the capacity and means to punish others, or withhold their reward, be it in this world, or the hereafter, we assume to…
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The Arrogance of Forgiveness
My naivety has often led to prickly situations that didn’t end well. Sometimes the prickiness of the situation resulted in the loss of what I assumed to be a heartwarming friendship. But the thing about conviction is that it makes it impossible to withdraw an unpopular sentiment in order to preserve the illusion of friendship,…
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My Guilt About Women in Niqab
I feel extremely guilty but also bitter whenever I see photos intended to elevate the awareness and appreciation for women that wear niqab, and I despise myself for it. I’ve always held such women in the highest esteem. Living in a non-Muslim country, my respect for them was even greater knowing that they were establishing…
