Are you throwing away a good life?

If you find yourself feeling easily judged about your life, you're focused on how others perceive you, rather than what you think of yourself.In fact, the moment you focus on what opinions others may have about your life or about who you are, it confirms that you are already judging yourself harshly.That insecurity distracts us…

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Are you aware of your legacy?

Sometimes, when we're faced with disappointment about how we're appreciated by those dear to us, it's easy to find reason to give up on what we wish to leave as a legacy for them in life.So, we withhold our contribution, or pull back on our participation in their lives, assuming that we don't matter.Whether that…

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Eat more humble pie

It only tastes like humble pie when we feel humiliated after being corrected. Arrogance is the belief that we're better...humility visits us when we realise that we're not.The root of arrogance is insecurity, but that's a discussion for another day.If we're sincere about wanting to benefit others or wanting to create good for those around…

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