You know that awkwardness that you feel when someone says something that you know is right but you're not ready to hear it?Or when a sincere advisor or significant other points out something you're doing that isn't helpful or good for you, and you get defensive about it?Those are hints at the shame with which …
How we see ourselves is reflected in the choices that we make in life.Not what is obvious about those choices, but what we're trying to achieve through those choices.Unfortunately, most are unaware of the second part. That underlying need that drives the choices that we make.When we lose sight of that need, we feel drawn …
When our self-worth is low, we convince ourselves that we deserve pity and support for the state we're in, because rising above it seems too daunting.But it's unlikely that we'll realise that it's a low self-worth driving such behaviour.Instead, we'll be convinced that the most important thing in the world is for the world to …
