Judging bad behaviour

I have yet to meet someone who behaves poorly when they feel appreciated.Yet, we're most often focused on the poor behaviour instead of their feeling of insignificance.The same is true for us.Our anger, bitterness, or rebellion is simply an expression intended to reclaim our significance when significant others treat us as if we don't matter.…

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Allow your children to be their own person

We always have good intentions when we strive to give our children everything that we didn't have.Often, this includes protecting them from the hardships or difficulties that we experienced.Unfortunately, when we do this, we end up protecting them from reality, and in the process, we deny them the very life lessons that taught us to…

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A life full of things…except happiness

While there may be truth in the saying that money doesn't buy happiness but at least you can choose your misery, we need to consider if we really want to be choosing our misery or experiencing happiness?It all starts out with good intent.Earn some money to improve your quality of life, or create a home…

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