Destroying peace to find peace

Rage is a destructive demand for significance when we believe that who we are is not enough to be important to those we love.The anger that spurs on the rage is a defence mechanism to protect ourselves from becoming invisible.We try, in our own little futile ways, to be enough without being able to express [...]

Be gentle

Chances are very good that your harshness or cruelty is directed at the wrong person.Unfortunately, you'll only realise this after the damage is done. Cruelty, like anger, is most often expressed to those weaker than us, even though we experience it at the hands of those stronger than us.Sadly, it is paid forward more often [...]

My silent scream

When rage is all you have left in you, know that you've surrendered yourself to the betrayal of the world.When rage becomes a silent scream or a deliberate protest, despite your best intentions, you are still defined by that betrayal.When rage colours your view of the world, you see demons in angels, and persecution in [...]