Destroying peace to find peace

Rage is a destructive demand for significance when we believe that who we are is not enough to be important to those we love.The anger that spurs on the rage is a defence mechanism to protect ourselves from becoming invisible.We try, in our own little futile ways, to be enough without being able to express [...]

Escaping addiction

It's not drugs that steal our children from us. Like us, they also need to feel significant.Taking drugs is not just a bad habit. It's a means to escape what we don't want to deal with in the world around us.Is it a bad decision? Absolutely. Because escaping something never resolves it, it only defers [...]