Judge, as you would like to be judged

When we behave badly, we pacify ourselves by focusing on what we intended, or why it was understandable for us to behave that way.When others treat us badly, we're more inclined to assume that it is a true reflection of how little we mean to them, or how malicious they are. The moment we judge…

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Are you really you?

We often speak of not letting go of our inner child. But, I always wonder why does it have to be something we hold within?Why can't we embrace the innocence of our childish charms in everything that we do?Or did we take away that permission from ourselves when someone once said, "Act your age!"?What does…

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Are you in an abusive relationship…with you?

It's women's day in South Africa.A public holiday dedicated to recognising the value and contribution of women in society.My hope for this day is that we find the gentleness and nurturing spirit innate in women, and we give it an opportunity to thrive in our own lives, regardless of gender.Don't be your harshest critic. Be…

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