Home breakers

Those who live with the expectation of receiving what they need, rather than putting in the effort to create it with their own heart and hands, will take for granted that which others have exhausted themselves building.Like a home. There are too many who expect to feel at home because of their material contribution, but…

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Judging bad behaviour

I have yet to meet someone who behaves poorly when they feel appreciated.Yet, we're most often focused on the poor behaviour instead of their feeling of insignificance.The same is true for us.Our anger, bitterness, or rebellion is simply an expression intended to reclaim our significance when significant others treat us as if we don't matter.…

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Are you waiting for permission to be who you want to be?

Note, who you want to be, not what you want to be.We're so focused on what we want to be, what career, what achievements, what social standing, that we lose sight of who we want to be.That's how we become defined by what we are, or what goals we are pursuing.Who we want to be…

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