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What are you waiting for?
When we find ourselves waiting for just the right moment, or that right feeling, or the perfect setting, or the ideal opportunity to present itself before we do something, we’re afraid of failure. If we know, with understanding and rational thought, why we are not ready for something, that’s different. When we have no real…
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Rise
People that respect your victim-hood do so because it makes them feel better about themselves. It doesn’t mean that they are malicious or have bad intentions. But they most likely don’t even realise it themselves. In fact, you may be supporting others in ways that comfort you more than it helps them. When we find…
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Embrace the whole of you
We often discard good advice because we don’t like the source. Sometimes it’s because we don’t want to appear weak in front of them, and other times it’s because we are trying to save face after having treated them badly. Emotional maturity is achieved when we are willing to learn from our enemies and loved…
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A victim of your own mind
There’s a difference between being a victim in the moment, versus holding onto the victim mindset long after the moment has passed. We hold on to the victim mindset when we need others to recognise our struggle, or to acknowledge what we’re having to overcome or deal with. The only reason this becomes necessary is…
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What’s your legacy?
Live to love, to laugh, and to leave a legacy. It is only through truly appreciating who we are, that we will be able to leave an imprint of love in the hearts of those we cherish. Until we connect with that gratitude of self, our efforts will put smiles in the hearts of others,…
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Do you know why?
What we choose to respond to is a reflection of what is important to us. The more important it is, the more intense or passionate our response. Hence anger that bubbles over, or heartfelt pleas and messages to connect with someone about something. The tone and demeanour of how we respond is a reflection of…
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The living martyr
One of the biggest hang ups in life, is wearing our hurt as a badge of honour. Our need to have our struggle recognised is born from the belief that we will not be appreciated if others don’t know what we went through. It is born from the belief that our shortcomings must be tolerated…
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Own your life
Owning your life doesn’t mean controlling every aspect of your life. Instead, it means that you are mindful about what and who you allow to influence your decisions and outcomes in your life. Like most things in life, moderation is important. Knowing when to take the reins and when to have it over to someone…