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The struggle of faith
It is our belief in the value of something that drives us towards fighting to protect it. We cherish that which we appreciate, and we appreciate that which we value. Call it conviction in the value of the outcome, or belief in the beauty of its truth. Whatever it is, it is that unwavering faith…
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All that matters is right now…
Reminiscing about the good old days becomes a toxic trait when it distracts us from what we have now. Our distracted state is what causes us to lose sight of what we have, so that at some future point, we may once more reminisce about what was. Such an indulgence, when done in excess, convinces…
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Peace is not the absence of battles
When life feels overwhelming, the most effective way to slow things down is to choose our battles. Prioritising what’s important over what’s urgent usually sets the tone for what we tolerate or invest our time in, versus what we ignore or postpone. However, this only creates capacity to deal with new battles that may arise,…
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Don’t wait for justice
This world was created for respite, not for justice. Stop waiting for it to be OK before you move on with your life. It will never truly be OK. And when you eventually do move on, it’s because you stopped waiting for it to be OK, not because it suddenly was OK. Life is most…
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Lost moments
The pendulum of time brushes ever so lightly against the arc of eternity, and in that very finite moment of its contact, an entire lifetime is lived. Some are deluded into believing that the pendulum will swing back, realising too late that once the moment is passed, it is lost to eternity. For some reason,…
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It’s not always about you
The truth is, if you want to matter that much to someone else, shouldn’t they matter equally as much to you? If they do, and you find that they don’t have as much time for you as they used to, or are behaving differently to what you know them to be about, do you claim…
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Getting it wrong
An excerpt from my first book, The Egosystem, contemplating the impact of things not working out often leads to our greatest moments of inspiration. That’s part of the beauty of defeat. It creates a deepening appreciation for the dreams that we court. But we all have a tolerance level beyond which even the probability of…
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The gratitude paradox
Gratitude is a result of appreciating the absence of something. That absence doesn’t have to be experienced, it can also be observed. All that is needed is an event or incident that inspires the realisation of what life would be like without the value that we obtain from something. Occasionally it’s from someone. It is…