You give what you have

What we believe is true about ourselves is what we are capable of offering to others.Nothing more.Nothing less.You cannot give what you don't have. The day you realise this is the day you'll see the fears and weaknesses that drives others to behave badly towards you.It was never about you.It's always about reflecting who they [...]

The silent lie

Dishonesty isn't always a lie. It's often an unspoken truth. In fact, unspoken truths are probably the source of more dishonesty than outright lies.We remain silent when we feel threatened by the revelation of the truth.That threat is not always about exposure of who we are. Sometimes, it's because we don't want to bear the [...]

You give what you have

I've had many interesting discussions with my kids about this topic recently. If they are dishonest about something, I make them aware of the fact that they will only find reason to be honest with others if they find it unacceptable to be dishonest with themselves. What we tolerate by ourselves towards ourselves is what [...]