Honourable destruction

When honour is confused with social standing, abuse becomes an acceptable form of saving face.Beyond considerations of family honour, this toxic cultural practice convinces the individual that infidelity becomes excusable because divorce is deplorable.It convinces the brute of the justification of their rage when their partner rejects dehumanising practices by their in-laws.It replaces ideals of [...]

Escaping addiction

It's not drugs that steal our children from us. Like us, they also need to feel significant.Taking drugs is not just a bad habit. It's a means to escape what we don't want to deal with in the world around us.Is it a bad decision? Absolutely. Because escaping something never resolves it, it only defers [...]

Demand more…of yourself

Unless you believe that you are capable of achieving more, you will always hold on to less.That belief is more about feeling worthy than it is about ability.Sometimes, we look at how our best efforts were received and assume that the negative outcomes bear testament to the value that we have to offer.We then find [...]