Understanding misunderstanding

When we find that, despite our sincerest efforts, we continue to be misunderstood, consider that perhaps we need to focus on understanding instead.

Understanding becomes difficult when we’re gripped with the desperation of needing others to understand how important something is to us.

That desperation is often driven by fear, or self pity, rather than conviction. And it’s fed by a belief that they simply don’t realise how important it is.

If we’re not careful, this is how we become the architects of our own misery, or the result of our own self-fulfilling prophecy.

The greater our emotional investment, the more likely we are to contaminate that space with fear or self pity.

Creating space for understanding is the most important thing you can do to avoid a potential lifetime of regret.

#hope #expectation #sincerity #relationshipgoals #companionship #soulfood #soulmates #selfawareness #mybeloved #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthrecovery #narcissisticpartner #ownyourshit #ownyourlife #theegosystem #zaidismail

close

WANT MORE?

SIGN UP TO RECEIVE FRESH INSIGHTS INTO UNDERSTANDING THE LIFE THAT YOU HAVE, SO THAT YOU CAN CREATE THE LIFE THAT YOU WANT.

I promise to never spam you.
Read my privacy policy for more info.

Share your thoughts on this...

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.