A moment of trust

It's impossible to go through life without trusting others.But, if we're not careful, the trust that we invest in others could result in consequences that create a struggle for the rest of our lives.Most often, when choosing a partner, we focus on how trustworthy they are in the present circumstances, but have no idea how…

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Dehumanising the human

Don't become so fixated on labelling yours, or the behaviour of others, that you lose sight of the human struggle behind that behaviour.Labels make it easier for us to deal with stuff.The moment we give it a name, we can manage our expectations around it.This is fine when it comes to abstract stuff and tasks…

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Looking a gift horse in the mouth

When we're driven by aesthetics and appearances, social standing becomes more important than substance or authenticity.We lose ourselves to the way we want to be perceived, rather than what we want to create.We grow defined by how others treat us, or how well we can hide our flaws.We pursue all the right things that hold…

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