We all need to feel like we’re enough…
Enough to comfort those we love and care for…
Enough to inspire them to rise above their trials…
Enough to instil hope in them when they feel deflated…
And more.
Most importantly, we prevent those who care for us from being all this to us when we’re filled with self-loathing, self-pity, or when we feel like a burden to them.
In the same way that we behave badly when we feel unappreciated, others behave badly towards us when their efforts to uplif us feels futile.
Without realising it, our low self-worth destroys the self-worth of those around us because we give them reason to feel inadequate.
But because we’re filled with self-pity, or self-loathing, or because we are stuck in a victim mindset, we assume that we cannot possibly have such an impact on those around us.
That’s when we create and feed the very cycles that weigh us down.
Because we convince those who care for us that they are insignificant compared to the trials of our life, and thus, we convince them that they’re not good enough to comfort those that they care for.
We’re often our own worst enemies without realising it.
It always starts with you.
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We all want to be enough
