Settling for a hint of life

How we see ourselves is reflected in the choices that we make in life.

Not what is obvious about those choices, but what we’re trying to achieve through those choices.

Unfortunately, most are unaware of the second part. That underlying need that drives the choices that we make.

When we lose sight of that need, we feel drawn by instinct or desperation to do things that just ‘feel’ right, and then convince ourselves that we must trust our instincts.

But what if those instincts are driven by fear because we’re in survival mode after having had a bad childhood, or marriage?

Will our choices be healthy, or unhealthy?

If we’re not in tune with this side of who we are and how life has affected our sense of self, we’ll try desperately to create a good life for ourselves while losing ourselves in the process.

Eventually, we end up believing that the world has no place for us, or that it’s a cruel and harsh place, leaving us hoping or waiting to be saved…or waiting for death. Whichever comes first.

Reconnect with yourself in a way that is free of judgement, but full of understanding, and your choices will be informed by what you are passionate about, rather than what you desperately need from others to feel loved or accepted.

It always starts with you.

#selfworth #selfawareness #ownyourlife #selfmastery #mindfulness #personalpower #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #lifecoaching #zaidismail

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