Tag: normality

  • What is normal?

    Look around you…who do you notice? The normal people or the ones that stand out? Do you notice the eccentric characters, the passionately inspiring ones, or the ones that just go with the flow? 

    The ones that go with the flow are normal. 90% of the world population is normal. 5% are struggling with the urges to resist it. And 5% are true to themselves. That last 5% are the ones that make a difference. They’re the ones that inspire not because they want to, or because they try to, but simply because they have the courage to be themselves. The 90% sit and admire and aspire and desire to be like them. 

    That other 5% can’t decide which way they want to swing on this. Still want to be normal? Don’t. Normal is boring. Normal is predictable. Normal is dull. Normal is insincere and cowardly. Normal sucks. 

    Be yourself. That’s the greatest thing you’ll ever be able to achieve, because in this world of conformity, it’s almost impossible to know who you are unless you dig really deep. So dig…and don’t stop until you find yourself. If nothing else, let that be the purpose of your life. 

  • No matter how much I try to find normal friends, I always end up polarising towards people that are as screwed up as me. Birds of a feather and all that crap, you know. Even at times when I meet someone that seems to be perfectly normal and well-adjusted, they turn out to be screwed up like me. Sometimes they seem to have a balanced life, a reasonable circle of friends that they actually know in real life, and they seem fairly balanced in their views on love and life and all that crap…but in the end, they turn out to be just as screwed up as me! 

    So I’m wondering, am I really screwed up, or am I…erm… normal? Perhaps I’m judging myself too harshly? Perhaps I’m more resilient than most given how little it takes for others to fall apart relative to what brought me close to breaking point? Perhaps, and this is probably it, I’m just so emotionally stinted that it takes that much more to get a reaction from me, which is why I seem resilient while others seems flaky?