Who goes first?

If you find yourself among people who constantly demand that you give without receiving, or love without expressing affection in return, guard your soul.As much as we wish to fill the cups of others with goodness in this world, we must not deplete our own in the process.By indulging such selfishness from others, you enable…

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What are you really waiting for?

In order to know what's not right, you need to know what right would look like.Or feel like.Or taste like.Just because you don't know how to make it right, doesn't mean you have to accept and live with what's wrong.But sitting back and growing frustrated at your condition without trusting yourself to know that it…

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Gratitude spawns respect

Disrespect is often followed by discipline, or some other form of consequence management.While there is a need to correct bad behaviour, we can either spend our lives correcting that behaviour, or we can recognise that it's a symptom of something else.That something else is the absence of gratitude.No. Not gratitude for what we have. Because…

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