Looking a gift horse in the mouth

When we're driven by aesthetics and appearances, social standing becomes more important than substance or authenticity.We lose ourselves to the way we want to be perceived, rather than what we want to create.We grow defined by how others treat us, or how well we can hide our flaws.We pursue all the right things that hold…

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Understand before you judge harshly

Before you get upset with someone for not treating you the way that you want them to treat you, consider that what you need may not come naturally to them.Without meaning to, we oppress others when we assume that just because we're capable of something, they should be too.This is especially true when it comes…

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Don’t test the ones you love. Love them.

Ever find that despite your best efforts, someone close to you just never appreciates what you do for them?Ever feel like you're having to fulfil their expectations in detail about how to do something the way that they want you to do it before they are satisfied with you?Even then, when you do that thing…

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