Generational what?

The true destruction caused by our insecurities is that it destroys the good that we're supposed to be creating in the lives of those around us.Insecurity isn't always displayed through anger or defensiveness.Most often, to hide our insecurity, we over-compensate in spaces where we feel competent, so that we can avoid or distract attention away…

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Failed expectations

The greatest hurts are not from blatant lies.The deepest cuts are from those we hold dear when they deliberately ignore what they know is important to us.Or worse, when they deliberately do what they know offends us.When we make known our expectations or needs from a significant other, we reveal to them what is closest…

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The truth about compromise

That old adage about marriage being about compromise explains why so many marriages appear so burdensome to the ones involved.Before you start listing all the sacrifices that you make towards making your marriage work, consider that a willing compromise or sacrifice is a contribution towards something greater than who we are.The only time sacrifice becomes…

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