I have yet to meet someone who behaves poorly when they feel appreciated.Yet, we're most often focused on the poor behaviour instead of their feeling of insignificance.The same is true for us.Our anger, bitterness, or rebellion is simply an expression intended to reclaim our significance when significant others treat us as if we don't matter. …
I think it was Dr Wayne Dyer who said that if you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. This is true both positively and negatively.Do you know someone who has a problem for every solution? Who sees doom and gloom at the happiest of moments? Who is preempting …
I see so many people speaking on behalf of others, often starting out with good intention, but later distorting that intention by projecting their own values on the ones whom they wish to uplift.Despite our best intentions, we stifle the voices of others when we speak on their behalf.Not to be confused with supporting the …
