Choose better

We choose what we take from life.

Understanding those choices is therefore key to finding peace, or joy.

Our choices, even though sometimes painful, are always based on good intentions in that moment of choosing.

But, when that good intention is driven by a need to establish our significance rather than connect with the value that we want to create, our choices become understandably poorly informed.

Once again, understanding why we were distracted enough will add sweetness to our hindsight.

Looking back on our unpleasant experiences with understanding rather than judgement helps us to find peace where we currently may only find pain.

Seeking to understand is what disarms the bitterness of betrayed expectations and replaces it with the peace of acceptance.

If you’re struggling to reconcile your past in your efforts to create a better future, reach out via my website at zaidismail.com or on WhatsApp at +27836599183. Together, we can create the life that you’ve always wanted.

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