how do you know if others are oblivious to truths about themselves?
I see it in their actions when I engage with them and I see how they deny their nature in favour of what will be the popular choice. When they refuse to make difficult decisions because of the fear of offending others, even though the issue may be related to a deeply embedded principle that they feel strongly about. And especially when I see how focused they are on maintaining their image relative to what is trendy rather than what they’re naturally comfortable with. These, for me, are usually clear indicators that they’re too distracted by the superficial to spend any meaningful time reflecting and finding purpose and discovering the truths about themselves.